Yesterday, I turned 43. It’s not a milestone birthday, but for some reason it feels like it’s going to be a big year. I made a lot of changes last year, and I’m feeling pretty good about where my life is headed. So, without further ado, here are my non-concrete goals for 43:
- Stay on track with conditioning & practice
- Be neater, at least in the house where it affects other people
- Eat healthier
- Cultivate creativity
- Nurture friendships
Now, I know that goals really need to be concrete to be meaningful and attainable, so I’m going to take those 5 things and try to break it down into doable, concrete chunks:
First, stay on track with conditioning. This is an easy one, but it’s super important because it directly affects my roller derby life. So, the concrete bits are:
- Exercise at least 4 mornings a week (I’m loving the Hero’s Journey right now, but when I’m done I’m going to start trying out some more of the workouts I have pinned.)
- Go to the gym at least 4 evenings a week: Two days of cardio, two days of trainer-designed routine
- Swim at least twice a week
- Practice skills on skates at least twice a week besides team practice (in the kitchen until the weather gets warmer, then outside somewhere)
- Keep up with nurse evaluations (quarterly) & free PT re-evals (6-8 weeks) at the gym
Next, be neater, at least in the house where it affects other people. Look, I’m a messy person. I just am. I constantly have piles of stuff around me. I’m a bit extremely mercurial, so I never know what I’m going to want to read/work on/deal with next, and so I try to keep it all around me so I can grab what I want at a moment’s notice. What this means in practical terms is that there is an entire section of our couch that is unusable because it is covered in my stuff. So I need to:
- Limit myself to a single project and single book/magazine on the couch at any one time
- Do quick things immediately (e.g., mending stuffed animals)
- Put away one project (or book/magazine) before getting out a new project if I want to change up what I’m working on
- Take tools and supplies back out to the Craft Mine when I’m done using them in the house (this is somewhat weather-dependent, but I think this year we’re going to try to put a little porch/deck out there for me, which means I won’t have to deal with trying to find/balance on wobbly concrete blocks in the snow/rain/dark and that will help tremendously)
- If I bring a project into the house and then don’t get to it (and won’t in the next day), take it back out to the Craft Mine until I’m actually ready for it
Third: Eat healthier. This one’s pretty easy, I just want to put it down in writing:
- Eat breakfast every day. Every. Day.
- No “dessert” on weekdays (candy/cake/hot chocolate/what have you)
- Eat at least one fruit AND one salad or veg soup every day
- Pack lunch at least 4 days a week
- Lean protein + brown rice for lunch before practice
- Drink at least one 32oz bottle of water every day
Cultivating creativity is up next, and I’ve already told you where I’m starting with that…Make’n’Tell starts tomorrow! (I’m not gonna lie — I forgot about Leap Year for a hot minute this morning and panicked because I hadn’t planned what to do for the day yet.) But there are some other things I want to do, too:
- Publish two patterns
- Blog at least twice a week
- Cook or bake something at least twice a week
- Sketch at least every other day
- Journal at least every other day
- Fully develop two classes and submit them to appropriate venues (and then go teach them if accepted, obviously)
- Spend at least two hours a week in the Craft Mine (weather permitting)
What I think is going to be the hardest for me is the last one, nurturing friendships. I’ve traditionally not been awesome at this, for a lot of reasons, but I’m going to do my best because I’ve managed to find myself surrounded by several extraordinary groups of people and I genuinely want to make sure I’m giving as much as I’m getting. I’m going to do little baby step concrete goals for this one:
- reach out to at least one friend every week, even if it’s just to say, “hi, how’re you doing?”
- wish people Happy Birthday on Facebook (as applicable)
Whew. Looking back at this, it seems like a lot. But I really do think it’s all small and concrete enough that I can do it. And I think this year is going to be the best one yet.
